infinite monkey boy

let me share with you guys one thing i read.
In our lives, we have 2 circles.
1. Circle of Concern
2.Circle of influence

Circle of concerns are those that we have no control over
examples will be " World peace" "feed all the hungry"
"I hate my friend's attitude"

Circle of influence is those we have control over
"world peace begins with me"" i'll give food to the poor at my house"
" I will work on my friend's strengths than to gossip of them"

This is really summarised but all I am saying is that we should all work on our circle
of influence so much so that we work on something we can control
rather than talking and complaining and gossiping and backstabbing on
the things we have no control over( circle of concern).

for more: read "the 7 habits of highly effective people"